Aries (March 21 - April 19)
Aries people somehow manage to incorporate a touch of red into just about everything they wear. If they're part of an emerald green wedding party, however, it might be hard to spot them. But what they can't hide is their boldness. It oozes out of them. Once you've identified your Aries, remember that you'll have to keep them perpetually entertained to keep them interested. That means every encounter between you two should be exciting. No, it may not be easy, but it sure will be fun. Just use your imagination!

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
They'll be dressed in lovely, earthy colors, and you'll notice their elegance first. Fortunately for you, they may be alone, too. Taurus folks aren't afraid to go anywhere or do anything by themselves. They'll be meandering around the room, chatting casually but probably making it obvious that they're not attached to anyone -- so they'll be more than receptive to your gracious approach. Remember that Venus, Goddess of Love and Beauty, is their ruling planet, and that you're being treated to time with one of her most graceful and charming representatives. You must, therefore, conduct yourself appropriately.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
The table whose occupants are all laughing so hard they can barely take a sip of champagne? That's where you'll find your Gemini -- but considering how entertaining these creatures are, it won't be easy to introduce yourself. Oh, and definitely have something clever to say. Having two of whatever they're drinking is nice, too -- it's the "twin" thing. You'll need to keep them entertained with witty banter and then maneuver them away from their audience. Suggest that you step out on the patio to chat. They love to chat!

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
They'll be taking care of the kids. Not just their own, but everyone else's, too. Obviously, you'll have to be a family-oriented person, and make that clear to them immediately. Either get yourself involved with the kids or chat with them about the kids. If you have children, whether they're present or just in photos, you'll have plenty to talk about. If not, remember that you must love kids (and probably critters, too) to love a Cancer. It's a package deal. If you share that fact right away, they'll be interested.

Leo (July 23 - August 22)
First, scope out the most lavish yet elegantly dressed person in the room. This will likely also be the one who'll make the speech that has everyone in the room laughing and crying. Things will get interesting when you attempt to separate them from the gaggle of admirers surrounding them. Fortunately, Leos adore bravery: step up to the front of the line of their admirers, interrupt politely and ask for a dance. Once you have them alone, explain that you're not ordinarily rude, but you really wanted them to enjoy the reception -- which just wouldn't be possible unless they spent the evening with you. It's an "opener" they'd use themselves. They'll love it.

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
No matter where they are, especially if it's a formal event, Virgos don't overdo their garb. Underplayed elegance is what being truly formal means to them. So before you ask that friend of a friend to introduce you, remove any and all evidence of gaudiness. It just won't do. It may even be grounds for polite, civil but almost immediate dismissal (via a well-formulated excuse and a charming exit). Start by complimenting them on how well they've managed to make simplicity look so dazzling. Then wait for a slow dance, nod in their direction and extend your hand. Oh, and allow them to decide how physically close that dance will be.

Libra (September 23 - October 22)
They'll definitely have a date. You'll be lucky if it's only a friend, sibling or someone who's just an escort. Of course, landing a Libra always involves luck … and lots of it. Their long-term devotion is world famous, and their social calendars are rarely anything less than jam-packed. So before you make your approach, ask around. Be sure you're not stepping on the toes of a jealous mate. Then, initiate a polite conversation. Small talk isn't just fun for them, it's how they interview prospective partners. It doesn't take them long to finish up those interviews, either, so choose every syllable carefully.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
Weddings are black-tie events, so your Scorpio will be strutting their finest duds. But they'll also be watching others with the skill of a detective, so it's highly unlikely they'll be noticed. If you're watching them, however, it won't take them more than a minute to notice. Otherwise, they'll tip their glass, smile knowingly and wink -- in such a way that you'll feel as if you've actually been touched. You'll need to be brave if you want them for your own. Wink back, nod and tip your head to the side. Then wait. Don't -- I repeat, do not -- make a move. Scorpios are all about control, but that's just part of their sexiness.

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
If you can tear them away from the gaggle of friends they'll be chatting with, that's Stage One. Making yourself heard above the laughter they're inspiring may be tougher, but it will give you a shot. Do whatever it takes to get them out on the dance floor and away from the crowd. Then, as casually as possible, ask them what they've always wanted to do or where they've always wanted to go. If it's not lunch in Paris, suggest you make that your first date, or something comparable, and promise Paris in the future. That's it -- just be sure you really mean to make it happen. Sagittarius people prize honesty above all else -- even adventure.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
If they're not giving away the bride, part of the bridal party or elegantly attired and acting as escort to a prominent guest, they'll look as if they are. In short, if you're searching out a Capricorn, look for someone who's entirely at home in this formal situation -- because this is their specialty. They won't be alone. They'd never attend any event without a companion. So if you'd like to make their acquaintance, there's only one acceptable way to do it: have a mutual acquaintance introduce you. Then bring them the beverage of their choice, pick a spot on the patio that's not being used for photo ops, and initiate some very polite and intelligent conversation.

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
Even if they're in the wedding party, they won't be dressed like anyone else. That's Tip Number One. In addition to their clothing, however, there'll be at least one other thing about their physical appearance that's absolutely unique. It may be their hair, their jewelry or a bit of "body art." Since you're looking for someone different, you'll love it regardless of what it is -- so be sure to compliment it. Mention that you have similar tastes, then find a place where you can let them know how much you really appreciate their individuality. It's what they live for, and the highest compliment you can give them.

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
When it comes to emotional events, Pisces come prepared. They carry mini-packets of Kleenex or handkerchiefs. They know they'll be doing some sniffling, even if they're not related to the happy couple. It's the loving emotions that get them. When the vows are exchanged … well, dabbing their eyes will be just the start of it. Once the music starts, prepare yourself. This is your "in." Slide up and provide a shoulder when their companion takes a break. Express your respect for their ability to show their emotions -- something most of us can't do. They'll know they can trust you -- and that's Step One.