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2. Intro And Some Highlights (8)
1. Career Change to WHAT 2. How You Can Deal with Job Loss and Career Change 3. What Career You Would Like, Suggestions 4. Your Own Business, How You Can Become a Successful Entrepeneur 5. How You Can Deal with Job Loss and Career Change 6. Got an Interview, How You Should Put Your Best Foot Forward 7. How You Can FIND FAME, Ticket To Limelight 8. Your Summer Job 1. College Majors You Might Be Into 2. How to Shine-and-Impress at Your High School Reunion 3. How You Navigate the World After Graduation 4. Back To School Fashion You Might Be Sporting, Style 5. How You Get Ready to Go Back To School
1. How to Feel Happy, Safe and Fulfilled 2. Your Hidden Character 3. Emotions, alwaysastrology 4. Emotions, lifetips 5. Emotions, trans4mind 6. Your Habits, Reactions, Instincts, Innermost Needs, How You Show Emotions and Mother-or-Baby Yourself 7. Your Emotional Needs for Sex, Love, and Relationships 1. Your Stress Triggers 2. Your Superstitions, Bizarre Beliefs, and Behaviors, Stress
1. Your Basic Nature, Instincts, Sensuality, Drive, Agressiveness 2. Details of Your Personality, as The Woman 3. Overall Personality, As A Woman 4. The Woman Personality Overview 5. Personality Overview In Astro-Speak 6. Personality Overview, As A Child 7. Personality Overview, cafeastrology 8. Personality Overview, Sign Info 9. Personality Overview 10. Overall Personality, As A Child 11. Overall Personality, As A Friend 12. Overall Personality, As A Lover 13. Details of Your Personality, Famous Personalities 14. Details of Your Personality, How You Are As A Boss 15. Details of Your Personality, How You Are As A Employee 16. Details of Your Personality, How You Can Be Recognized 17. Details of Your Personality, How You Were As A Child
1. Creativity, alwaysastrology 2. Creativity, astrolibrary 3. Creativity, astroscoped 4. Creativity, trans4mind
1. How You Learn 2. How You Think On Your Feet 3. How Your Mind Thinks 4. Your Concentration, Communication, and Reasoning Skills 5. Your Decision-Making Style and Way of Absorbing Information 6. Your Intelligence, and How You Talk To Others 7. Your Minds Pros and Cons 8. Your Perception and Mindset in Communication 9. Your Thinking Style 10. Your Thoughts and Expressions Are Shaped This Way 11. Your Way of Expressing and Adapting
1. Personal Growth, alabe 2. Personal Growth, trans4mind
(1) Career
1. Career Change to WHAT 2. How You Can Deal with Job Loss and Career Change 3. What Career You Would Like, Suggestions 4. Your Own Business, How You Can Become a Successful Entrepeneur 5. How You Can Deal with Job Loss and Career Change 6. Got an Interview, How You Should Put Your Best Foot Forward 7. How You Can FIND FAME, Ticket To Limelight 8. Your Summer Job(2) Education-College
1. College Majors You Might Be Into 2. How to Shine-and-Impress at Your High School Reunion 3. How You Navigate the World After Graduation 4. Back To School Fashion You Might Be Sporting, Style 5. How You Get Ready to Go Back To School(3) Emotional-Side-Moon
1. How to Feel Happy, Safe and Fulfilled 2. Your Hidden Character 3. Emotions, alwaysastrology 4. Emotions, lifetips 5. Emotions, trans4mind 6. Your Habits, Reactions, Instincts, Innermost Needs, How You Show Emotions and Mother-or-Baby Yourself 7. Your Emotional Needs for Sex, Love, and Relationships(4) Stress
1. Your Stress Triggers 2. Your Superstitions, Bizarre Beliefs, and Behaviors, Stress(5) Personality
1. Your Basic Nature, Instincts, Sensuality, Drive, Agressiveness 2. Details of Your Personality, as The Woman 3. Overall Personality, As A Woman 4. The Woman Personality Overview 5. Personality Overview In Astro-Speak 6. Personality Overview, As A Child 7. Personality Overview, cafeastrology 8. Personality Overview, Sign Info 9. Personality Overview 10. Overall Personality, As A Child 11. Overall Personality, As A Friend 12. Overall Personality, As A Lover 13. Details of Your Personality, Famous Personalities 14. Details of Your Personality, How You Are As A Boss 15. Details of Your Personality, How You Are As A Employee 16. Details of Your Personality, How You Can Be Recognized 17. Details of Your Personality, How You Were As A Child(6) Creativity-Neptune
1. Creativity, alwaysastrology 2. Creativity, astrolibrary 3. Creativity, astroscoped 4. Creativity, trans4mind(7) Mind-Mercury
1. How You Learn 2. How You Think On Your Feet 3. How Your Mind Thinks 4. Your Concentration, Communication, and Reasoning Skills 5. Your Decision-Making Style and Way of Absorbing Information 6. Your Intelligence, and How You Talk To Others 7. Your Minds Pros and Cons 8. Your Perception and Mindset in Communication 9. Your Thinking Style 10. Your Thoughts and Expressions Are Shaped This Way 11. Your Way of Expressing and Adapting(8) Personal-Growth-Jupiter
1. Personal Growth, alabe 2. Personal Growth, trans4mind3. How You Relate (10)
1. Your TYPE of Man, What You Are Attracted To In A Man 2. 3 Things That Can Turn You On 3. Attracting-Seducing You 4. Your TYPE of Man, What You Are Attracted To In A Man 5. Your Way of Being Attracted and Then Seduced
1. FLIRTING Style 2. FLIRTING Style
Venus Sign
or
SUN Sign
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RISING Sign
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Your Venus Sign
See the flirting styles of Venus in the Element of:
* FIRE - Aries/Leo/Sagittarius
* EARTH - Taurus/Virgo/Capricorn
* AIR - Gemini/Libra/Aquarius
* WATER - Cancer/Scorpio/Pisces
(You can also use your Sun Sign instead.)
See The Love Planets for more background.
Venus or Aphrodite is the mythological Godess of Love and Beauty. The Sign which contains the planet Venus in your birth chart indicates the way you seek to give and receive affection and love. Venus attains her desires by attracting, like the flower attracts the bee with its color and sweet nectar, to lure it into acting as the agent of its fertilization.
In any person's birth horoscope (also called the "birth chart"), Venus will be in one of the twelve signs of the zodiac, but cannot be more than two signs away from the sign of the Sun in their birth chart. Venus takes an average of one month to travel through a sign.
Unlike the Sun, which moves about one degree per day, the planet Venus appears to move slower or faster across the zodiac at different times, and sometimes appears to reverse direction (called "retrograde motion"). There is no regular motion, so the dates when Venus is located in a certain Sign can not be found from a simple table of dates like the ones used for Sun Signs. Your Venus Sign is found by calculating your unique birth chart for the actual time of your birth.
Many people know their "sign", which means their Sun Sign, but don't know their Venus Sign. You can also use your Sun Sign to check out your "flirting style" for now, since what is said below about Venus will also apply to some lesser extent for your Sun Sign. Read these pages again when you find your Venus Sign to get a better indication of how you "flirt with Venus". The Venus Sign for anyone born 1940-1959 can be found in my simplified ephemeris.
Flirting with Venus
Your Venus Sign shows the strategy you prefer to use to attract love or affection, or friends or lovers. You might call this the "love style" for your Venus Sign. If you are a woman, you might call it your "womanly wiles". I call it your "flirt mode".
Each Venus Sign has a separate strategy, which can come into play quite unconsciously sometimes; such as when a woman is in the presence of attractive males or something she wants to have. She may flirt in a certain way which uses the strategies of that Sign, or act in a certain way to GET her way. For flirting or for finagling, she'll use the same set of strategies to "attract" what is desired. And so will a man, unless he chooses to go with a more active or aggressive Mars energy to "attain" his desires using his Mars Sign style.
If you have Venus in one of the three Signs which form a particular Element listed below, when you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the general styles which are described on the page about that Element. From that Element page, you can link to the page about your particular Venus Sign and see some specific ways you tend to "flirt" - or the way you attract love and affection.
See the flirting styles of Venus in the Element of:
* FIRE - Aries/Leo/Sagittarius
Your Venus Sign is the Sign where the planet Venus is located in your birth chart. If your Sun Sign or Rising Sign is Aries or Leo or Sagittarius, you may also have the following style to some extent; but whatever your Sun Sign may be, when you have Venus in one of these Fire Signs, your way of flirting is even more likely to be as described below. If your Sun or Moon is in an Earth or Water Sign, it may "dampen the fire" somewhat; but the Fire Sign style will still shine through in some way.
See Venus in Fire Signs and Flirting by Sign.
(Your Venus Sign is the Sign where the planet Venus is located in your birth chart. If your
SUN Sign
or
RISING Sign
is Aries
you may also have the following style to some extent; but whatever your Sun Sign may be, when you have Venus in Aries your way of flirting is even more likely to be as described below.)
* EARTH - Taurus/Virgo/Capricorn
Your Venus Sign is the Sign where the planet Venus is located in your birth chart. If your Sun Sign or Rising Sign is Taurus or Virgo or Capricorn, you may also have the following style to some extent; but whatever your Sun Sign may be, when you have Venus in one of these Earth Signs, your way of flirting is even more likely to be as described below. If your Sun or Moon is in a Fire or Air Sign, it may "turn up the heat" somewhat; but the cautious Earth Sign style will still show up in some way.
* AIR - Gemini/Libra/Aquarius
Your Venus Sign is the Sign where the planet Venus is located in your birth chart. If your Sun Sign or Rising Sign is Gemini, Libra or Aquarius, you may also have the following style to some extent; but whatever your Sun Sign may be, when you have Venus in one of the Air Signs, your way of flirting is even more likely to be as described below. If your Sun or Moon is in an Earth or Water Sign, it may "dampen" things somewhat; but the "airy" style of Venus in an Air Sign will still show in some way.
* WATER - Cancer/Scorpio/Pisces
See Sign Compatibility and Opposites Attract.
See Flirting by Sign for introduction.
Sun
Aries
Sun or Venus in Aries
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Spontaneous. You act on impulse; are full of surprises; and are not boring. You may need to remind yourself of the proverb: "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread."
Spirited. You act lively, playful, plucky, vital, fiery, feisty, or cocky. You love a challenge and play the game with gusto.
Passionate. You act very enthusiastic and are very expressive about your feelings. Subtle is not your style.
Courageous. You act bold and spunky, take chances, and will risk rejection. There's always more fish in the sea.
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Impetuous. You are easily infatuated, then may lose interest if you get bored. If someone sparks your interest, your "rapid response" can get you involved too quickly when caution could be the better approach.
Direct and bold. You make your interest or intentions known, and are rarely subtle or shy about it. You can risk rejection, and recover from a rebuff. You'll flirt fearlessly and make overtures overtly.
Challenging. You present a challenge, acting coy or cocky or "hard-to-get". And you like a challenging conquest too. You may engage in sports or a game of chance to attract the attention of one you desire.
Competitive. You love to be chased, to elude, then let yourself be caught. Flirting is a game, and you play to win.
Ardent. You seem passionate, and love to be "swept away" with desire. You can be enthusiastic and energetic, and seem "full of fire" to one you desire.
Independent. You seem self-reliant, and you appreciate self-assurance in those you choose to flirt with. A wimp wouldn't win your warmth and affection.
Another trait of Venus in Aries involves your head (since the head is associated with the Sign of Aries). Your way of showing affection may sometimes be to push your head into someone or rub your face or hair against them - similar to the way a dog will push at you with his nose.
Sun
Taurus
Taurus
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Earthy. You appear natural, nature-loving, grounded, solid, steady, and stable. You seem "comfortable" or "a calming influence".
Practical. You seem down-to-earth, reliable, realistic, or pragmatic. You act like you have "common sense". You might offer material security as an attraction, or be attracted to one who can provide it. You may talk more about what you own than what you feel.
Patient. You don't act impulsive, impetuous, or impatient. You will wait a long time, if that seems the best tactic. You don't push, but you persevere; and you believe "persistence pays". You won't abandon ship until it is surely sinking.
Sensual. You appear sensuous, tactile, and very aware of physical sensations. A touch means more than words to you. Sharing food may be a form of flirtation.
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"The good provider." You show you can offer both material things and sensual comforts. You may try to modestly show off your possessions or purchasing power.
Easygoing. You seem "easy to be with", calm, comfortable, and soothing; and you like to share "quiet times" and everyday activities such as shopping and cooking and dining.
Touchable. You look cuddly and huggable; and are physically responsive. You seem "safe" and "approachable" and send out "good vibes". You show affection through physical contact. You can be a "huggy bear".
Hedonistic. You love all sensual pleasures, such as food, drink, art, music, perfumes, fondling, or sex; and you show it and want to share it.
Nature-loving. You appreciate nature, plants, animals,rocks, sand, sunsets, woods, fields, streams, lakes, and oceans; and like to share nature walks, camping, campfire gatherings, gardening, being with animals, outdoor cooking, or just sitting outdoors.
Honest. You seem sincere, truthful, forthright, uncomplicated, and dependable; and show you can be relied on. You are also very loyal to those you care for.
Sun
Gemini
Gemini
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Wordy. You use chatting, word-play, informing, calls, emails, notes, or poetry. You may find yourself talking more than usual when attracted to someone. You could become "a sweet-talker".
Interesting. You use intellect, ideas, and wit to appear fascinating. And you appear "interested" in the object of your affections.
Interactive. You get others involved in banter, discussion, or debate. You become more "sociable" and want to really "communicate".
Intelligent. You use reason, logic, and analysis. You don't appear too emotional, preferring to relate on a mental level.
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Sweet-talker. You have a way with words. You're very good at flirting and teasing, and can charm or cajole anyone with that "silver tongue". You might also be tempted to be devious and "speak with forked tongue" (as the Native American Indians used to say). You are adept at adapting your style to suit the seduction.
Witty. When interested, you can turn into a quick-witted and clever conversationalist, and you love witty banter and the inviting innuendo. Double meanings and puns are the tricks of your trade when in "flirt mode". You are perceptive of details and notice the response you are getting, so you can swiftly switch style to sustain interest.
Raconteur. You can relate endless stories about people or events or experiences to arouse the interest of one you desire.
Writer. You like to write notes, poems, or long letters to the object of your desire. You may even send love notes by fax, or a romantic email greeting card. Internet chat rooms may also suit your style of flirting with written communcations.
Phone-mate. You love long romantic phone calls, or Internet meeting-by-modem (and may even enjoy "phone sex").
Reader. You love to share or give books, and to discuss books or ideas. You could shamelessly flirt in a book store or library or lecture hall.
Sun
Cancer
Cancer
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Emotional. You seem to feel things deeply, and feel emotionally vulnerable. You tend to over-use imagination, and may think that what you feel is real even when logic would say it isn't.
Sensitive. You seem sweet and vulnerable (though Scorpio hides it well). You tend to make others feel they need to "protect" you from hurt feelings; and may act in ways to encourage this.
Responsive. You seem to sense others' moods and react to their emotions. You seem very "empathic" or "sympathetic" to others' feelings.
Fluid. You seem to seep into one's heart through weak spots in their emotional armour. You are very subtle and indirect in the way you attract love and affection.
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Caring. You seem to want to know and understand the feelings or fears of the one you would flirt with. (If you are male, you come across as "a sensitive guy".) You offer emotional support or a shoulder to cry on, and might become the confidante or confessor for the one you desire. The Cancer style is subtle, and to flirt does not mean overt.
Nurturing. You care for one's comfort and cater to one's emotional needs. Call it the "care bear" strategy. Cuddling and coddling is part of the care bear mating ritual. Feeding is a form of nurturing, and offering food is a form of flirtation for Venus in Cancer. An invitation to a home-cooked dinner may set the scene for seduction. Even the suggestion to split a pizza may mean more than a passing interest.
Mothering. Fussing over the object of your affections is an indication of interest. You may act like a mother (or father) to the one you would entice - not necessarily a "romantic" role, but one that can successfully seduce that certain someone. You pamper the one you desire and cater to their comfort (and might unconsciously call them "baby" more often than you or they are noticing).
Protective. You make one feel safe from harm or emotional hurts. The more of your affection they attract, the more protective you will act.
Secure. You seem to offer a safe haven, a secure future, or a home base (and you might even mention that you are a home-owner or talk about your house). You seem like someone who could make one feel "at home", secure in the knowledge that they "belong" somewhere and are cared for. An invitation into your home is an invitation to romance.
Rooted. You value "family" and family traditions, and you value the past. Interest in someone's family means interest in them, so flirting may involve family pictures, family facts, or family history. You might offer help in finding one's roots or lost relatives. An invitation to meet YOUR family is not a flirtation, but a courtship.
Sun
Leo
Leo
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Spontaneous. You act on impulse; are full of surprises; and are not boring. You may need to remind yourself of the proverb: "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread."
Spirited. You act lively, playful, plucky, vital, fiery, feisty, or cocky. You love a challenge and play the game with gusto.
Passionate. You act very enthusiastic and are very expressive about your feelings. Subtle is not your style.
Courageous. You act bold and spunky, take chances, and will risk rejection. There's always more fish in the sea.
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Dramatic. You seem somewhat flamboyant; act with flair; and you make grand gestures. (Maybe "melodramatic" is a better word.) When interested in someone, you may find yourself unconsciously tossing or teasing your hair, which can be a real attention-getter.
Romantic. You send flowers or candy or champagne or roving musicians, or quote poetry. Cyrano de Bergerac had a big nose but, like Roxanne, you like his style. You love to stage sweet surprises for the object of your affection.
Regal. You have an aristocratic air and a noble bearing; and sometimes seem "glorious". You may act haughty or hard-to-please. You expect to be respected, and will act worthy of respect with one you desire.
Generous. You give gifts and freely dispense favours and treats. You may act magnanimous or benevolent with those you favor. A single rose is not your style - three dozen does it better.
Warm. You act affectionate and friendly; and make your admirer feel worthy of your attention. Touching and stroking is a tell-tale which indicates interest from Leo the Lion. (Licking and pawing should be stifled until you are sure it will be appreciated.)
Entertaining. You show some kind of talent or artistic flair; and seek attention, applause, and appreciation for your performance. You act like an actor (or a "ham").
Sun
Virgo
Virgo
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Earthy. You appear natural, nature-loving, grounded, solid, steady, and stable. You seem "comfortable" or "a calming influence".
Practical. You seem down-to-earth, reliable, realistic, or pragmatic. You act like you have "common sense". You might offer material security as an attraction, or be attracted to one who can provide it. You may talk more about what you own than what you feel.
Patient. You don't act impulsive, impetuous, or impatient. You will wait a long time, if that seems the best tactic. You don't push, but you persevere; and you believe "persistence pays". You won't abandon ship until it is surely sinking.
Sensual. You appear sensuous, tactile, and very aware of physical sensations. A touch means more than words to you. Sharing food may be a form of flirtation.
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Pure. You seem "proper" and polite and conservative and clean, even "virginal". You may come across as "reserved" - as holding back your emotions, and also as keeping your affections "reserved" for the proper partner.
Attentive to details. You note one's preferences and cater to their needs and desires. You "notice" little things about the one you desire, and may mention them. You may try to help "organize" or help out the one who attracts you, and this is a way of "flirting" for you. When you give a little gift, you try to make it appropriate to what you think the person needs, or is interested in, or would be "useful" to them.
Clever. You seem witty, logical, analytical, and perceptive. You act as a good listener, and engage in intelligent conversation.
Discriminating. You show taste, class, and good manners. You see what needs "fixing" in one you desire, and may unconsciously brush lint from their clothing or fix their tie or hair or "fuss" over them. If not careful, you're too critical of one you care for (but it's a sign you are interested).
Adaptable. You seem willing to compromise or change in order to improve a relationship, or to attract the one you desire.
Indispensable. You become so helpful and useful to the one you desire, that they end up depending on you. (Like the private secretary who eventually seduces her boss.)
Sun
Libra
Libra
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Wordy. You use chatting, word-play, informing, calls, emails, notes, or poetry. You may find yourself talking more than usual when attracted to someone. You could become "a sweet-talker".
Interesting. You use intellect, ideas, and wit to appear fascinating. And you appear "interested" in the object of your affections.
Interactive. You get others involved in banter, discussion, or debate. You become more "sociable" and want to really "communicate".
Intelligent. You use reason, logic, and analysis. You don't appear too emotional, preferring to relate on a mental level.
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Romantic. You seem sweet or sensitive or tender or tantalizing or teasing. Talking about romantic movies or novels or other people's love lives may be a way of flirting for you. Doing things that seem "romantic" indicates serious interest.
Pleasing. You act gracious, charming, cute, considerate, or tasteful. You adapt your style to attract the one you desire, and may genuinely aim to please. Acting especially "nice" is a sign of serious flirtation.
Partner-oriented. You could flirt by offering to be "partners" in some activity. You like being "a couple" and spending time "one-on-one" rather than in a group gathering, so a suggestion to slip away from a group and be alone together is a sign of serious interest.
Attentive. You love to hear the person you are interested in talk of events or feelings or ideas, and you act like you are really "paying attention" to them. Asking questions about what someone said may be a way of flirting with them. You can flirt by just listening to someone with rapt interest.
Understanding. You make someone feel only they really understand you. Or you make them feel only you really understand them. You come across as being interested in what the person has to say and understanding how they feel about things.
Intimate. You prefer to be alone with one you desire, and you seem to concentrate on that person when you are with them. You may show or say that you "really like being with" someone you desire. You may find yourself unconsciously doing little things that are "intimate" with somone you are interested in, such as touching an arm or adjusting their clothing or stroking their hair.
Sun
Scorpio
Scorpio
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Emotional. You seem to feel things deeply, and feel emotionally vulnerable. You tend to over-use imagination, and may think that what you feel is real even when logic would say it isn't.
Sensitive. You seem sweet and vulnerable (though Scorpio hides it well). You tend to make others feel they need to "protect" you from hurt feelings; and may act in ways to encourage this.
Responsive. You seem to sense others' moods and react to their emotions. You seem very "empathic" or "sympathetic" to others' feelings.
Fluid. You seem to seep into one's heart through weak spots in their emotional armour. You are very subtle and indirect in the way you attract love and affection.
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Intense. You seem intently focused on the object of your desire. You appear primal, sultry, brooding, or "dark" - and perhaps a little "dangerous". (I don't know if you could say Venus in Scorpio "flirts" at all; for it often seems a subtle "seduction" is taking place that makes the first step of flirting seem superfluous.)
Smouldering. You seem to have passions ready to flame or to erupt - like a glowing ember which when fanned can flare into a fire of desire.
Sexual. You seem to act more "sexy" when in flirt mode, and may exude an enticing "animal magnetism" that subtly seduces the one you desire.
Mesmerizing. A look in your eyes can mesmerize. The object of your attention is drawn in by the mystery behind the eyes. One could lose oneself in their depths. You might be told you possess "bedroom eyes".
Probing. You seem to stare into one's soul, to sense one's secrets. You tend to make the object of your attentions feel vulnerable somehow. You may ask probing questions about things other people would not venture to inquire about. Being the instigator of a Scorpio inquisition indicates some serious interest in the guy or gal being grilled.
Powerful. You seem strong - a sorceror, a saviour ...or a slave master. A subtle sense of hidden power could attract a certain someone like a flame attracts certain flying insects.
Sun
Sagittarius
Sagittarius
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Spontaneous. You act on impulse; are full of surprises; and are not boring. You may need to remind yourself of the proverb: "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread."
Spirited. You act lively, playful, plucky, vital, fiery, feisty, or cocky. You love a challenge and play the game with gusto.
Passionate. You act very enthusiastic and are very expressive about your feelings. Subtle is not your style.
Courageous. You act bold and spunky, take chances, and will risk rejection. There's always more fish in the sea.
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Expansive. You show an appetite for variety, new ideas, and new experiences. "Excessive" might be a better word, for you can over-do things a bit - or a lot. You may find yourself "embellishing" or exaggerating to inspire more interest in you. You may be thinking a little "hype" would help.
Adventurous. You seem willing to explore new experiences and new places. Foreign countries, foreign food, flying, or horseback riding may suddenly seem so interesting. A motorcycle ride may seem so appropos.
Care-free. You appear to be free of restrictions; and will give a partner "space" and freedom. In flirt mode you may act more like a "free spirit" than usual, or seem more optimistic and enthusiastic. (You might also act a little "clutzy" or clumsy.)
Companionable. You want to pal around with your flirting partner, to be "friends first". Your naturally friendly style may be mistaken for serious interest and attract unwanted wanna-be's.
Philosophical or humorous. You play the part of philosopher or clown. You may laugh a lot, or make someone laugh. (If you find yourself making bad jokes, you are probably in flirt mode.)
Spiritual. You seek to share your spiritual path or be a guide. Or you act as a "seeker" or student to one who can teach or inspire you.
Sun
Capricorn
Capricorn
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Earthy. You appear natural, nature-loving, grounded, solid, steady, and stable. You seem "comfortable" or "a calming influence".
Practical. You seem down-to-earth, reliable, realistic, or pragmatic. You act like you have "common sense". You might offer material security as an attraction, or be attracted to one who can provide it. You may talk more about what you own than what you feel.
Patient. You don't act impulsive, impetuous, or impatient. You will wait a long time, if that seems the best tactic. You don't push, but you persevere; and you believe "persistence pays". You won't abandon ship until it is surely sinking.
Sensual. You appear sensuous, tactile, and very aware of physical sensations. A touch means more than words to you. Sharing food may be a form of flirtation.
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Reputable. You try to impress the one you desire with your reputation, position, job title, career, social standing, or wealth. You appear "respectable" yourself, and act "respectful" of the one you desire.
Responsible. You attract the one you desire by being reliable, solid, and supportive. You may offer to take over some of their "responsibilities" for them so that they come to depend on your support.
Mature. You appear self-disciplined, competent, and "in control". You may act like a "parent figure" to a less mature person - or appear to appreciate the "maturity" of one you desire.
Material. You show you can offer attractive practical or material benefits - such as financial support and security, a good home, and the finer things in life.
Committed. You seem very willing to make commitments, such as to a friendship or long-term relationship; or seem to be "marriage-minded". You act like one who "plays for keeps" and will be forever faithful.
Reserved. You appear aloof and intriguingly inscrutable; or look like "a loner". You may attract one who is afraid of emotions; or a more "feeling" person who wants to break through the emotional barrier you have erected.
Sun
Aquarius
Aquarius
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Wordy. You use chatting, word-play, informing, calls, emails, notes, or poetry. You may find yourself talking more than usual when attracted to someone. You could become "a sweet-talker".
Interesting. You use intellect, ideas, and wit to appear fascinating. And you appear "interested" in the object of your affections.
Interactive. You get others involved in banter, discussion, or debate. You become more "sociable" and want to really "communicate".
Intelligent. You use reason, logic, and analysis. You don't appear too emotional, preferring to relate on a mental level.
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Original. You seem delightfully different, surprising, or inventive. Perhaps a little "quirky". If you find yourself acting a little odd, or saying things meant to shake up or shock someone a little, you may be in flirt mode.
Unconventional. You seem open-minded or unorthodox, and you set your own style. When flirting, you may act a little "out of character" or "off the wall" or even "outrageous". Flirting may involve demonstrating how you can "dare to be different" from others and not conform to peer pressure or social conventions; such as acting a little crazy sometimes, or wearing unusual clothing. You might act "rebellious" or get talking about "rebelling" against something with a co-conspirator you are interested in - or about "reforming" things with their help.
Individualistic. You set your own rules in how you relate to people, and respect that someone else has his or her own way of relating too. You might encourage the one you desire to "just be yourself" and show that you appreciate the ways they express their individuality.
Free-spirited. You need your own "space" and you seem willing to let someone have theirs. In fact, the more you want them, the more you may act like they are free to leave. You may find yourself flaunting the "rules" of decorum in an attempt to get attention from one you would flirt with. You may act like a "free spirit" and encourage someone who interests you to "just do your own thing"; or show you appreciate what they are already doing that is out of the ordinary.
Visionary. You seem like a "visionary" who sees future trends, and may invite someone you desire to join you in working at changing the world somehow. Talking about your vision may be a way of flirting with the object of your affections.
Coolly detached. You may appear aloof or unemotional, or perhaps intellectual. It seems an odd way to "flirt", but it can be attractive to those who are curious, or who are not comfortable with overly-emotional people, or who want you to show your feelings more. Someone always wants to melt the "Ice Princess" or get "Cool Hand Luke" to show his feelings; so your "detached" air could be intriguing to someone you are interested in. If your basic nature is NOT to be cool and detached, but passionate (Sun in Aries or Sagittarius) or emotional (Sun in Pisces)... you may paradoxically act less warm and more cool when in the presence of a person whose affections you would entice.
Sun
Pisces
Pisces
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Emotional. You seem to feel things deeply, and feel emotionally vulnerable. You tend to over-use imagination, and may think that what you feel is real even when logic would say it isn't.
Sensitive. You seem sweet and vulnerable (though Scorpio hides it well). You tend to make others feel they need to "protect" you from hurt feelings; and may act in ways to encourage this.
Responsive. You seem to sense others' moods and react to their emotions. You seem very "empathic" or "sympathetic" to others' feelings.
Fluid. You seem to seep into one's heart through weak spots in their emotional armour. You are very subtle and indirect in the way you attract love and affection.
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Mysterious. You seem intriguing, elusive, even enigmatic. Your air of mystery might invite an attractive someone to be seduced into a secret affair.
Sweet and Demure. You seem sensitive and vulnerable, or coy, or shy. Your sweetness is seductive and your demure demeanor is disarming. If you are female, an alluring femininity may flower and passively but powerfully attract the object of your affection.
Surreal. You offer intriguing illusions or an escape from reality, possibly in a romantic fantasy world that invites the one you desire to depart the drudgery of daily life. Perfumes or colognes, glamorous clothes, or creative cosmetics might add to your alluring air.
Soulful. You seem able to share deep feelings, or a higher consciousness. You seem a safe harbour for one's soul. You seem like someone who could connect on a soul level. You might show a "soulful" look in your eyes as you glance at the one you would flirt with.
Self-sacrificing. You offer to serve some needs of the one you desire, putting them first and yourself last, even something as simple as offering your seat on the bus, or giving of your time to help someone with something. You may tend to lose your self-identity when you identify yourself too strongly with the object of your affections. (Beware that your willingness to make sacrifices might set you up as an unwitting victim. It is sweet to sacrifice your self-interest, but self-destructive to sacrifice your self-respect.)
Spiritual. You may seem like a spiritual guide to someone; or you may see your salvation in the one you desire.
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Your Venus Sign
See the flirting styles of Venus in the Element of:
* FIRE - Aries/Leo/Sagittarius
* EARTH - Taurus/Virgo/Capricorn
* AIR - Gemini/Libra/Aquarius
* WATER - Cancer/Scorpio/Pisces
(You can also use your Sun Sign instead.)
See The Love Planets for more background.
Venus or Aphrodite is the mythological Godess of Love and Beauty. The Sign which contains the planet Venus in your birth chart indicates the way you seek to give and receive affection and love. Venus attains her desires by attracting, like the flower attracts the bee with its color and sweet nectar, to lure it into acting as the agent of its fertilization.
In any person's birth horoscope (also called the "birth chart"), Venus will be in one of the twelve signs of the zodiac, but cannot be more than two signs away from the sign of the Sun in their birth chart. Venus takes an average of one month to travel through a sign.
Unlike the Sun, which moves about one degree per day, the planet Venus appears to move slower or faster across the zodiac at different times, and sometimes appears to reverse direction (called "retrograde motion"). There is no regular motion, so the dates when Venus is located in a certain Sign can not be found from a simple table of dates like the ones used for Sun Signs. Your Venus Sign is found by calculating your unique birth chart for the actual time of your birth.
Many people know their "sign", which means their Sun Sign, but don't know their Venus Sign. You can also use your Sun Sign to check out your "flirting style" for now, since what is said below about Venus will also apply to some lesser extent for your Sun Sign. Read these pages again when you find your Venus Sign to get a better indication of how you "flirt with Venus". The Venus Sign for anyone born 1940-1959 can be found in my simplified ephemeris.
Flirting with Venus
Your Venus Sign shows the strategy you prefer to use to attract love or affection, or friends or lovers. You might call this the "love style" for your Venus Sign. If you are a woman, you might call it your "womanly wiles". I call it your "flirt mode".
Each Venus Sign has a separate strategy, which can come into play quite unconsciously sometimes; such as when a woman is in the presence of attractive males or something she wants to have. She may flirt in a certain way which uses the strategies of that Sign, or act in a certain way to GET her way. For flirting or for finagling, she'll use the same set of strategies to "attract" what is desired. And so will a man, unless he chooses to go with a more active or aggressive Mars energy to "attain" his desires using his Mars Sign style.
If you have Venus in one of the three Signs which form a particular Element listed below, when you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the general styles which are described on the page about that Element. From that Element page, you can link to the page about your particular Venus Sign and see some specific ways you tend to "flirt" - or the way you attract love and affection.
See the flirting styles of Venus in the Element of:
* FIRE - Aries/Leo/Sagittarius
Your Venus Sign is the Sign where the planet Venus is located in your birth chart. If your Sun Sign or Rising Sign is Aries or Leo or Sagittarius, you may also have the following style to some extent; but whatever your Sun Sign may be, when you have Venus in one of these Fire Signs, your way of flirting is even more likely to be as described below. If your Sun or Moon is in an Earth or Water Sign, it may "dampen the fire" somewhat; but the Fire Sign style will still shine through in some way.
See Venus in Fire Signs and Flirting by Sign.
(Your Venus Sign is the Sign where the planet Venus is located in your birth chart. If your
SUN Sign
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RISING Sign
is Aries
you may also have the following style to some extent; but whatever your Sun Sign may be, when you have Venus in Aries your way of flirting is even more likely to be as described below.)
* EARTH - Taurus/Virgo/Capricorn
Your Venus Sign is the Sign where the planet Venus is located in your birth chart. If your Sun Sign or Rising Sign is Taurus or Virgo or Capricorn, you may also have the following style to some extent; but whatever your Sun Sign may be, when you have Venus in one of these Earth Signs, your way of flirting is even more likely to be as described below. If your Sun or Moon is in a Fire or Air Sign, it may "turn up the heat" somewhat; but the cautious Earth Sign style will still show up in some way.
* AIR - Gemini/Libra/Aquarius
Your Venus Sign is the Sign where the planet Venus is located in your birth chart. If your Sun Sign or Rising Sign is Gemini, Libra or Aquarius, you may also have the following style to some extent; but whatever your Sun Sign may be, when you have Venus in one of the Air Signs, your way of flirting is even more likely to be as described below. If your Sun or Moon is in an Earth or Water Sign, it may "dampen" things somewhat; but the "airy" style of Venus in an Air Sign will still show in some way.
* WATER - Cancer/Scorpio/Pisces
See Sign Compatibility and Opposites Attract.
See Flirting by Sign for introduction.
Sun
Aries
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Spontaneous. You act on impulse; are full of surprises; and are not boring. You may need to remind yourself of the proverb: "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread."
Spirited. You act lively, playful, plucky, vital, fiery, feisty, or cocky. You love a challenge and play the game with gusto.
Passionate. You act very enthusiastic and are very expressive about your feelings. Subtle is not your style.
Courageous. You act bold and spunky, take chances, and will risk rejection. There's always more fish in the sea.
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Impetuous. You are easily infatuated, then may lose interest if you get bored. If someone sparks your interest, your "rapid response" can get you involved too quickly when caution could be the better approach.
Direct and bold. You make your interest or intentions known, and are rarely subtle or shy about it. You can risk rejection, and recover from a rebuff. You'll flirt fearlessly and make overtures overtly.
Challenging. You present a challenge, acting coy or cocky or "hard-to-get". And you like a challenging conquest too. You may engage in sports or a game of chance to attract the attention of one you desire.
Competitive. You love to be chased, to elude, then let yourself be caught. Flirting is a game, and you play to win.
Ardent. You seem passionate, and love to be "swept away" with desire. You can be enthusiastic and energetic, and seem "full of fire" to one you desire.
Independent. You seem self-reliant, and you appreciate self-assurance in those you choose to flirt with. A wimp wouldn't win your warmth and affection.
Another trait of Venus in Aries involves your head (since the head is associated with the Sign of Aries). Your way of showing affection may sometimes be to push your head into someone or rub your face or hair against them - similar to the way a dog will push at you with his nose.
Sun
Taurus
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Earthy. You appear natural, nature-loving, grounded, solid, steady, and stable. You seem "comfortable" or "a calming influence".
Practical. You seem down-to-earth, reliable, realistic, or pragmatic. You act like you have "common sense". You might offer material security as an attraction, or be attracted to one who can provide it. You may talk more about what you own than what you feel.
Patient. You don't act impulsive, impetuous, or impatient. You will wait a long time, if that seems the best tactic. You don't push, but you persevere; and you believe "persistence pays". You won't abandon ship until it is surely sinking.
Sensual. You appear sensuous, tactile, and very aware of physical sensations. A touch means more than words to you. Sharing food may be a form of flirtation.
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"The good provider." You show you can offer both material things and sensual comforts. You may try to modestly show off your possessions or purchasing power.
Easygoing. You seem "easy to be with", calm, comfortable, and soothing; and you like to share "quiet times" and everyday activities such as shopping and cooking and dining.
Touchable. You look cuddly and huggable; and are physically responsive. You seem "safe" and "approachable" and send out "good vibes". You show affection through physical contact. You can be a "huggy bear".
Hedonistic. You love all sensual pleasures, such as food, drink, art, music, perfumes, fondling, or sex; and you show it and want to share it.
Nature-loving. You appreciate nature, plants, animals,rocks, sand, sunsets, woods, fields, streams, lakes, and oceans; and like to share nature walks, camping, campfire gatherings, gardening, being with animals, outdoor cooking, or just sitting outdoors.
Honest. You seem sincere, truthful, forthright, uncomplicated, and dependable; and show you can be relied on. You are also very loyal to those you care for.
Sun
Gemini
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Wordy. You use chatting, word-play, informing, calls, emails, notes, or poetry. You may find yourself talking more than usual when attracted to someone. You could become "a sweet-talker".
Interesting. You use intellect, ideas, and wit to appear fascinating. And you appear "interested" in the object of your affections.
Interactive. You get others involved in banter, discussion, or debate. You become more "sociable" and want to really "communicate".
Intelligent. You use reason, logic, and analysis. You don't appear too emotional, preferring to relate on a mental level.
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Sweet-talker. You have a way with words. You're very good at flirting and teasing, and can charm or cajole anyone with that "silver tongue". You might also be tempted to be devious and "speak with forked tongue" (as the Native American Indians used to say). You are adept at adapting your style to suit the seduction.
Witty. When interested, you can turn into a quick-witted and clever conversationalist, and you love witty banter and the inviting innuendo. Double meanings and puns are the tricks of your trade when in "flirt mode". You are perceptive of details and notice the response you are getting, so you can swiftly switch style to sustain interest.
Raconteur. You can relate endless stories about people or events or experiences to arouse the interest of one you desire.
Writer. You like to write notes, poems, or long letters to the object of your desire. You may even send love notes by fax, or a romantic email greeting card. Internet chat rooms may also suit your style of flirting with written communcations.
Phone-mate. You love long romantic phone calls, or Internet meeting-by-modem (and may even enjoy "phone sex").
Reader. You love to share or give books, and to discuss books or ideas. You could shamelessly flirt in a book store or library or lecture hall.
Sun
Cancer
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Emotional. You seem to feel things deeply, and feel emotionally vulnerable. You tend to over-use imagination, and may think that what you feel is real even when logic would say it isn't.
Sensitive. You seem sweet and vulnerable (though Scorpio hides it well). You tend to make others feel they need to "protect" you from hurt feelings; and may act in ways to encourage this.
Responsive. You seem to sense others' moods and react to their emotions. You seem very "empathic" or "sympathetic" to others' feelings.
Fluid. You seem to seep into one's heart through weak spots in their emotional armour. You are very subtle and indirect in the way you attract love and affection.
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Caring. You seem to want to know and understand the feelings or fears of the one you would flirt with. (If you are male, you come across as "a sensitive guy".) You offer emotional support or a shoulder to cry on, and might become the confidante or confessor for the one you desire. The Cancer style is subtle, and to flirt does not mean overt.
Nurturing. You care for one's comfort and cater to one's emotional needs. Call it the "care bear" strategy. Cuddling and coddling is part of the care bear mating ritual. Feeding is a form of nurturing, and offering food is a form of flirtation for Venus in Cancer. An invitation to a home-cooked dinner may set the scene for seduction. Even the suggestion to split a pizza may mean more than a passing interest.
Mothering. Fussing over the object of your affections is an indication of interest. You may act like a mother (or father) to the one you would entice - not necessarily a "romantic" role, but one that can successfully seduce that certain someone. You pamper the one you desire and cater to their comfort (and might unconsciously call them "baby" more often than you or they are noticing).
Protective. You make one feel safe from harm or emotional hurts. The more of your affection they attract, the more protective you will act.
Secure. You seem to offer a safe haven, a secure future, or a home base (and you might even mention that you are a home-owner or talk about your house). You seem like someone who could make one feel "at home", secure in the knowledge that they "belong" somewhere and are cared for. An invitation into your home is an invitation to romance.
Rooted. You value "family" and family traditions, and you value the past. Interest in someone's family means interest in them, so flirting may involve family pictures, family facts, or family history. You might offer help in finding one's roots or lost relatives. An invitation to meet YOUR family is not a flirtation, but a courtship.
Sun
Leo
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Spontaneous. You act on impulse; are full of surprises; and are not boring. You may need to remind yourself of the proverb: "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread."
Spirited. You act lively, playful, plucky, vital, fiery, feisty, or cocky. You love a challenge and play the game with gusto.
Passionate. You act very enthusiastic and are very expressive about your feelings. Subtle is not your style.
Courageous. You act bold and spunky, take chances, and will risk rejection. There's always more fish in the sea.
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Dramatic. You seem somewhat flamboyant; act with flair; and you make grand gestures. (Maybe "melodramatic" is a better word.) When interested in someone, you may find yourself unconsciously tossing or teasing your hair, which can be a real attention-getter.
Romantic. You send flowers or candy or champagne or roving musicians, or quote poetry. Cyrano de Bergerac had a big nose but, like Roxanne, you like his style. You love to stage sweet surprises for the object of your affection.
Regal. You have an aristocratic air and a noble bearing; and sometimes seem "glorious". You may act haughty or hard-to-please. You expect to be respected, and will act worthy of respect with one you desire.
Generous. You give gifts and freely dispense favours and treats. You may act magnanimous or benevolent with those you favor. A single rose is not your style - three dozen does it better.
Warm. You act affectionate and friendly; and make your admirer feel worthy of your attention. Touching and stroking is a tell-tale which indicates interest from Leo the Lion. (Licking and pawing should be stifled until you are sure it will be appreciated.)
Entertaining. You show some kind of talent or artistic flair; and seek attention, applause, and appreciation for your performance. You act like an actor (or a "ham").
Sun
Virgo
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Earthy. You appear natural, nature-loving, grounded, solid, steady, and stable. You seem "comfortable" or "a calming influence".
Practical. You seem down-to-earth, reliable, realistic, or pragmatic. You act like you have "common sense". You might offer material security as an attraction, or be attracted to one who can provide it. You may talk more about what you own than what you feel.
Patient. You don't act impulsive, impetuous, or impatient. You will wait a long time, if that seems the best tactic. You don't push, but you persevere; and you believe "persistence pays". You won't abandon ship until it is surely sinking.
Sensual. You appear sensuous, tactile, and very aware of physical sensations. A touch means more than words to you. Sharing food may be a form of flirtation.
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Pure. You seem "proper" and polite and conservative and clean, even "virginal". You may come across as "reserved" - as holding back your emotions, and also as keeping your affections "reserved" for the proper partner.
Attentive to details. You note one's preferences and cater to their needs and desires. You "notice" little things about the one you desire, and may mention them. You may try to help "organize" or help out the one who attracts you, and this is a way of "flirting" for you. When you give a little gift, you try to make it appropriate to what you think the person needs, or is interested in, or would be "useful" to them.
Clever. You seem witty, logical, analytical, and perceptive. You act as a good listener, and engage in intelligent conversation.
Discriminating. You show taste, class, and good manners. You see what needs "fixing" in one you desire, and may unconsciously brush lint from their clothing or fix their tie or hair or "fuss" over them. If not careful, you're too critical of one you care for (but it's a sign you are interested).
Adaptable. You seem willing to compromise or change in order to improve a relationship, or to attract the one you desire.
Indispensable. You become so helpful and useful to the one you desire, that they end up depending on you. (Like the private secretary who eventually seduces her boss.)
Sun
Libra
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Wordy. You use chatting, word-play, informing, calls, emails, notes, or poetry. You may find yourself talking more than usual when attracted to someone. You could become "a sweet-talker".
Interesting. You use intellect, ideas, and wit to appear fascinating. And you appear "interested" in the object of your affections.
Interactive. You get others involved in banter, discussion, or debate. You become more "sociable" and want to really "communicate".
Intelligent. You use reason, logic, and analysis. You don't appear too emotional, preferring to relate on a mental level.
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Romantic. You seem sweet or sensitive or tender or tantalizing or teasing. Talking about romantic movies or novels or other people's love lives may be a way of flirting for you. Doing things that seem "romantic" indicates serious interest.
Pleasing. You act gracious, charming, cute, considerate, or tasteful. You adapt your style to attract the one you desire, and may genuinely aim to please. Acting especially "nice" is a sign of serious flirtation.
Partner-oriented. You could flirt by offering to be "partners" in some activity. You like being "a couple" and spending time "one-on-one" rather than in a group gathering, so a suggestion to slip away from a group and be alone together is a sign of serious interest.
Attentive. You love to hear the person you are interested in talk of events or feelings or ideas, and you act like you are really "paying attention" to them. Asking questions about what someone said may be a way of flirting with them. You can flirt by just listening to someone with rapt interest.
Understanding. You make someone feel only they really understand you. Or you make them feel only you really understand them. You come across as being interested in what the person has to say and understanding how they feel about things.
Intimate. You prefer to be alone with one you desire, and you seem to concentrate on that person when you are with them. You may show or say that you "really like being with" someone you desire. You may find yourself unconsciously doing little things that are "intimate" with somone you are interested in, such as touching an arm or adjusting their clothing or stroking their hair.
Sun
Scorpio
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Emotional. You seem to feel things deeply, and feel emotionally vulnerable. You tend to over-use imagination, and may think that what you feel is real even when logic would say it isn't.
Sensitive. You seem sweet and vulnerable (though Scorpio hides it well). You tend to make others feel they need to "protect" you from hurt feelings; and may act in ways to encourage this.
Responsive. You seem to sense others' moods and react to their emotions. You seem very "empathic" or "sympathetic" to others' feelings.
Fluid. You seem to seep into one's heart through weak spots in their emotional armour. You are very subtle and indirect in the way you attract love and affection.
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Intense. You seem intently focused on the object of your desire. You appear primal, sultry, brooding, or "dark" - and perhaps a little "dangerous". (I don't know if you could say Venus in Scorpio "flirts" at all; for it often seems a subtle "seduction" is taking place that makes the first step of flirting seem superfluous.)
Smouldering. You seem to have passions ready to flame or to erupt - like a glowing ember which when fanned can flare into a fire of desire.
Sexual. You seem to act more "sexy" when in flirt mode, and may exude an enticing "animal magnetism" that subtly seduces the one you desire.
Mesmerizing. A look in your eyes can mesmerize. The object of your attention is drawn in by the mystery behind the eyes. One could lose oneself in their depths. You might be told you possess "bedroom eyes".
Probing. You seem to stare into one's soul, to sense one's secrets. You tend to make the object of your attentions feel vulnerable somehow. You may ask probing questions about things other people would not venture to inquire about. Being the instigator of a Scorpio inquisition indicates some serious interest in the guy or gal being grilled.
Powerful. You seem strong - a sorceror, a saviour ...or a slave master. A subtle sense of hidden power could attract a certain someone like a flame attracts certain flying insects.
Sun
Sagittarius
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Spontaneous. You act on impulse; are full of surprises; and are not boring. You may need to remind yourself of the proverb: "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread."
Spirited. You act lively, playful, plucky, vital, fiery, feisty, or cocky. You love a challenge and play the game with gusto.
Passionate. You act very enthusiastic and are very expressive about your feelings. Subtle is not your style.
Courageous. You act bold and spunky, take chances, and will risk rejection. There's always more fish in the sea.
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Expansive. You show an appetite for variety, new ideas, and new experiences. "Excessive" might be a better word, for you can over-do things a bit - or a lot. You may find yourself "embellishing" or exaggerating to inspire more interest in you. You may be thinking a little "hype" would help.
Adventurous. You seem willing to explore new experiences and new places. Foreign countries, foreign food, flying, or horseback riding may suddenly seem so interesting. A motorcycle ride may seem so appropos.
Care-free. You appear to be free of restrictions; and will give a partner "space" and freedom. In flirt mode you may act more like a "free spirit" than usual, or seem more optimistic and enthusiastic. (You might also act a little "clutzy" or clumsy.)
Companionable. You want to pal around with your flirting partner, to be "friends first". Your naturally friendly style may be mistaken for serious interest and attract unwanted wanna-be's.
Philosophical or humorous. You play the part of philosopher or clown. You may laugh a lot, or make someone laugh. (If you find yourself making bad jokes, you are probably in flirt mode.)
Spiritual. You seek to share your spiritual path or be a guide. Or you act as a "seeker" or student to one who can teach or inspire you.
Sun
Capricorn
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Earthy. You appear natural, nature-loving, grounded, solid, steady, and stable. You seem "comfortable" or "a calming influence".
Practical. You seem down-to-earth, reliable, realistic, or pragmatic. You act like you have "common sense". You might offer material security as an attraction, or be attracted to one who can provide it. You may talk more about what you own than what you feel.
Patient. You don't act impulsive, impetuous, or impatient. You will wait a long time, if that seems the best tactic. You don't push, but you persevere; and you believe "persistence pays". You won't abandon ship until it is surely sinking.
Sensual. You appear sensuous, tactile, and very aware of physical sensations. A touch means more than words to you. Sharing food may be a form of flirtation.
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Reputable. You try to impress the one you desire with your reputation, position, job title, career, social standing, or wealth. You appear "respectable" yourself, and act "respectful" of the one you desire.
Responsible. You attract the one you desire by being reliable, solid, and supportive. You may offer to take over some of their "responsibilities" for them so that they come to depend on your support.
Mature. You appear self-disciplined, competent, and "in control". You may act like a "parent figure" to a less mature person - or appear to appreciate the "maturity" of one you desire.
Material. You show you can offer attractive practical or material benefits - such as financial support and security, a good home, and the finer things in life.
Committed. You seem very willing to make commitments, such as to a friendship or long-term relationship; or seem to be "marriage-minded". You act like one who "plays for keeps" and will be forever faithful.
Reserved. You appear aloof and intriguingly inscrutable; or look like "a loner". You may attract one who is afraid of emotions; or a more "feeling" person who wants to break through the emotional barrier you have erected.
Sun
Aquarius
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Wordy. You use chatting, word-play, informing, calls, emails, notes, or poetry. You may find yourself talking more than usual when attracted to someone. You could become "a sweet-talker".
Interesting. You use intellect, ideas, and wit to appear fascinating. And you appear "interested" in the object of your affections.
Interactive. You get others involved in banter, discussion, or debate. You become more "sociable" and want to really "communicate".
Intelligent. You use reason, logic, and analysis. You don't appear too emotional, preferring to relate on a mental level.
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Original. You seem delightfully different, surprising, or inventive. Perhaps a little "quirky". If you find yourself acting a little odd, or saying things meant to shake up or shock someone a little, you may be in flirt mode.
Unconventional. You seem open-minded or unorthodox, and you set your own style. When flirting, you may act a little "out of character" or "off the wall" or even "outrageous". Flirting may involve demonstrating how you can "dare to be different" from others and not conform to peer pressure or social conventions; such as acting a little crazy sometimes, or wearing unusual clothing. You might act "rebellious" or get talking about "rebelling" against something with a co-conspirator you are interested in - or about "reforming" things with their help.
Individualistic. You set your own rules in how you relate to people, and respect that someone else has his or her own way of relating too. You might encourage the one you desire to "just be yourself" and show that you appreciate the ways they express their individuality.
Free-spirited. You need your own "space" and you seem willing to let someone have theirs. In fact, the more you want them, the more you may act like they are free to leave. You may find yourself flaunting the "rules" of decorum in an attempt to get attention from one you would flirt with. You may act like a "free spirit" and encourage someone who interests you to "just do your own thing"; or show you appreciate what they are already doing that is out of the ordinary.
Visionary. You seem like a "visionary" who sees future trends, and may invite someone you desire to join you in working at changing the world somehow. Talking about your vision may be a way of flirting with the object of your affections.
Coolly detached. You may appear aloof or unemotional, or perhaps intellectual. It seems an odd way to "flirt", but it can be attractive to those who are curious, or who are not comfortable with overly-emotional people, or who want you to show your feelings more. Someone always wants to melt the "Ice Princess" or get "Cool Hand Luke" to show his feelings; so your "detached" air could be intriguing to someone you are interested in. If your basic nature is NOT to be cool and detached, but passionate (Sun in Aries or Sagittarius) or emotional (Sun in Pisces)... you may paradoxically act less warm and more cool when in the presence of a person whose affections you would entice.
Sun
Pisces
When you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in one or more of the following ways:
Emotional. You seem to feel things deeply, and feel emotionally vulnerable. You tend to over-use imagination, and may think that what you feel is real even when logic would say it isn't.
Sensitive. You seem sweet and vulnerable (though Scorpio hides it well). You tend to make others feel they need to "protect" you from hurt feelings; and may act in ways to encourage this.
Responsive. You seem to sense others' moods and react to their emotions. You seem very "empathic" or "sympathetic" to others' feelings.
Fluid. You seem to seep into one's heart through weak spots in their emotional armour. You are very subtle and indirect in the way you attract love and affection.
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Mysterious. You seem intriguing, elusive, even enigmatic. Your air of mystery might invite an attractive someone to be seduced into a secret affair.
Sweet and Demure. You seem sensitive and vulnerable, or coy, or shy. Your sweetness is seductive and your demure demeanor is disarming. If you are female, an alluring femininity may flower and passively but powerfully attract the object of your affection.
Surreal. You offer intriguing illusions or an escape from reality, possibly in a romantic fantasy world that invites the one you desire to depart the drudgery of daily life. Perfumes or colognes, glamorous clothes, or creative cosmetics might add to your alluring air.
Soulful. You seem able to share deep feelings, or a higher consciousness. You seem a safe harbour for one's soul. You seem like someone who could connect on a soul level. You might show a "soulful" look in your eyes as you glance at the one you would flirt with.
Self-sacrificing. You offer to serve some needs of the one you desire, putting them first and yourself last, even something as simple as offering your seat on the bus, or giving of your time to help someone with something. You may tend to lose your self-identity when you identify yourself too strongly with the object of your affections. (Beware that your willingness to make sacrifices might set you up as an unwitting victim. It is sweet to sacrifice your self-interest, but self-destructive to sacrifice your self-respect.)
Spiritual. You may seem like a spiritual guide to someone; or you may see your salvation in the one you desire.
3. Your Flirting Style(3) How-I-Want-To-Get-Picked-Up-On
1. How You Could Be Picked-Up at a Bar or Restaraunt 2. How You Could be Picked-Up On an Ocean Cruise 3. You Might Get Picked-Up at a BBQ This Way 4. You Might Get Picked-Up at a Wedding This Way 5. You Might Get Picked-Up at Work This Way 6. A Park Pickup that Might Work on You 7. A Summer Beach Pickup that Might Work on You 8. A Video-Store Pickup that Might Work on You 9. Pickup at a Gym(4) Dating
1. A Date You Might Like During Summer 2. An On-Campus Date You Might Like 3. Budget Dates THAT IMPRESS You 4. Date Ideas That Would Dazzle You 5. Date Ideas You May Like During Fall 6. How It Would Be To Date Your Own Sign 7. Your Worst Possible Slips-Ups On a Date 8. Dating Dealbreakers For You 9. Dating Tip 10. How You Are When Dating 11. How You Can Move on, Grieve and Get Over Major Heartbreaks(5) Seduce-You
1. How Can You Be Seduced 2. How You Would Like Someone to SEDUCE YOU, with these Tactics and Strategies 3. Lose Points, Seduce 4. Win Points, Seduce 5. Your Approach to Seducing Someone, by Element 6. Your Way of Being Attracted and Then Seduced(6) LOVER-Sun-Venus-Mars
1. In the Bedroom 2. Your Impulse to Act on Your Desires 3. How Your ex-Lover Can Make Up with You 4. Overall Personality, As A Lover 5. Your Kissing Style 6. Your Summer Fling(7) SEX-Sun-Mercury-Mars
1. Sex, Turn-ons and Flirtation 2. Your Sex Drive and Desires 3. Sex, Turn-ons and Flirtation 4. How Sex Begins in Your Thoughts 5. Sex, How You Like It 6. Who You Are Sexually Compatible With 7. Who You Are Sexually Compatible With(8) LUV-Sun-Venus-Mars
1. What You Are Like, In Love, Friendship Style, Creative Expression, Big Attraction, Winning You 2. Your Comfort Zone in Love & Relationships, Affection You Are Receptive To, To Woo You, Turn-offs, And Preferred Emotional-Physical Distance 3. Your Romantic Needs, Powers of Attraction, and Expression of Love 4. Love Styles, how you act to ATTAIN love, affection, and anything 5. How to WIN your LOVE 6. Loving You 7. How You Do Long Distance Relationships to Keep Love Alive 8. How You Might Propose, Love 9. How You Show Love 10. How Your ex-Lover Can Make Up with You 11. Overall Personality, As A Lover 12. The Love Songs You Probably Love 13. What You Want Your Honeymoon to Be Like so its Memorable, Love 14. Where and How To Find Your Soul Mate(9) Relationship-Romance-Sun-Venus
1. Relationships, alwaysastrology 2. Relationships, lifetips 3. Relationships, trans4mind 4. Your Comfort Zone in Love & Relationships, Affection You Are Receptive To, To Woo You, Turn-offs, And Preferred Emotional-Physical Distance 5. Your Romantic Needs, Powers of Attraction, and Expression of Love 6. Influencing You In A Relationship 7. Romancing You 8. How You Could Have Romantic Revenge Exacted on you If You Break Up Badly 9. Your Taste In Romantic Movies 10. Intimacy Issues You Could Have 11. How You Do Long Distance Relationships to Keep Love Alive 12. Your Relationship Donts 13. Your Relationship Needs 14. Your Relationships 15. Your Ways of Mixing Money and Relationship(10) Friendship-Sun-Venus
1. What You Are Like, In Love, Friendship Style, Creative Expression, Big Attraction, Winning You 2. What Your Best Friends Might Be Like 3. Your Quirks as a Roomate4. Taking Charge (6)
1. Details of Your Personality, How You Are As A Employee 2. Your Working Employee-Personality 1. As a Boss, How Would You Be Buttered Up 2. Details of Your Personality, How You Are As A Boss
1. Responsibility, alwaysastrology 2. Responsibility, Life Lessons, lifetips 3. Responsibility, trans4mind 1. Assertive, alwaysastrology 2. Assertive, trans4mind 3. Assertive, Yang Principles of Action, Leadership, Competitiveness and Aggression, lifetips
1. Power, alwaysastrology 2. Power, astroscoped-astrolibrary 3. Power, trans4mind 1. How You Would Handle Single-Parenthood 2. Your Parenting Style, Raising Them Your Way 3. As a Mother, How You Are With Your Daughter 4. As a Mother, How You Are With Your Son 5. Your Strengths and Weaknesses as a Mom
(1) Employee
1. Details of Your Personality, How You Are As A Employee 2. Your Working Employee-Personality(2) Boss
1. As a Boss, How Would You Be Buttered Up 2. Details of Your Personality, How You Are As A Boss(3) Responsibility-Saturn
1. Responsibility, alwaysastrology 2. Responsibility, Life Lessons, lifetips 3. Responsibility, trans4mind(4) Assertive-Mars
1. Assertive, alwaysastrology 2. Assertive, trans4mind 3. Assertive, Yang Principles of Action, Leadership, Competitiveness and Aggression, lifetips(5) Power-Pluto
1. Power, alwaysastrology 2. Power, astroscoped-astrolibrary 3. Power, trans4mind(6) Parenting
1. How You Would Handle Single-Parenthood 2. Your Parenting Style, Raising Them Your Way 3. As a Mother, How You Are With Your Daughter 4. As a Mother, How You Are With Your Son 5. Your Strengths and Weaknesses as a Mom5. Lighter Side (6)
1. Cities That Satisfy Your Soul 2. Your Party Personality 3. A Bad Horror Movie You Might Like 4. What is Your Type of Scary Movie 5. Your Pick for a Thanksgiving Movie 6. Your Taste In Romantic Movies 7. What You Might Like To Do on a Day-Off 8. How You Write a Facebook Status, Answering the Question, Whats On Your Mind 9. Your Inner Video-Game-Player 10. Your Star Trek Alter Ego 11. A Prank that Would Get You Good 12. Bad Holiday Gifts to AVOID Giving You 13. Gifts You Would Like to Get 14. Guilty Pleasures, How You Have Fun in Secret 15. Your Way to Have Fun on Vacation 16. How to Use Nighttime Dreaming to its Potential 17. Your List of Things to Do Before You Settle Down 18. Fun, Money-Savvy-Socializing, Save Money and Have Fun with the Girls 19. Your Facebook Page 20. A TV Show You Might Want to See 1. What Fast-Food Might You Choose 2. What Organic Foods Would Be Suited For You 3. Your Summer Food 4. You Might Enjoy These Holiday Side Dishes 5. Your Type of Beer 6. Your Type of Diet, to Lose Weight 7. How and What to EAT HEALTHY and Be Healthy 1. What You Are Thankful For 2. How You Can Go Pink 3. How You Could GO GREEN 4. How You Might Voluneteer, Use Your Good Intentions 5. Your Way of Lending a Hand, How You Offer Support 6. Historic Women, Their Driving Forces and Yours 1. Back To School Fashion You Might Be Sporting, Style 2. Customized Beauty Secrets and Makeover Ideas, Style 3. Halloween Costume Options to Consider Wearing 4. The Bridal Gown You Might Wear, Style 5. What Dress Should You Wear to Prom, Style 6. What Style of Lingerie Do You Wear 7. You Might Want to Wear This Sexy Halloween Costume, Style 8. Your Ideal Tattoo, Style 9. Your Sultry Summer Style 10. Your Wedding Colors, Style 11. Your Wedding Flowers, Style 1. Luck, alwaysastrology 2. Lucky Quality, lifetips 3. Lucky, Find Out Where You Are Luckiest in Life 4. How to Best Attract Good Fortune 1. How You Might Want to Get Fit in Spring, Exercise 2. Your Yoga Pose
(1) Fun
1. Cities That Satisfy Your Soul 2. Your Party Personality 3. A Bad Horror Movie You Might Like 4. What is Your Type of Scary Movie 5. Your Pick for a Thanksgiving Movie 6. Your Taste In Romantic Movies 7. What You Might Like To Do on a Day-Off 8. How You Write a Facebook Status, Answering the Question, Whats On Your Mind 9. Your Inner Video-Game-Player 10. Your Star Trek Alter Ego 11. A Prank that Would Get You Good 12. Bad Holiday Gifts to AVOID Giving You 13. Gifts You Would Like to Get 14. Guilty Pleasures, How You Have Fun in Secret 15. Your Way to Have Fun on Vacation 16. How to Use Nighttime Dreaming to its Potential 17. Your List of Things to Do Before You Settle Down 18. Fun, Money-Savvy-Socializing, Save Money and Have Fun with the Girls 19. Your Facebook Page 20. A TV Show You Might Want to See(2) Tastes-in-Food
1. What Fast-Food Might You Choose 2. What Organic Foods Would Be Suited For You 3. Your Summer Food 4. You Might Enjoy These Holiday Side Dishes 5. Your Type of Beer 6. Your Type of Diet, to Lose Weight 7. How and What to EAT HEALTHY and Be Healthy(3) GOODNESS
1. What You Are Thankful For 2. How You Can Go Pink 3. How You Could GO GREEN 4. How You Might Voluneteer, Use Your Good Intentions 5. Your Way of Lending a Hand, How You Offer Support 6. Historic Women, Their Driving Forces and Yours(4) Style
1. Back To School Fashion You Might Be Sporting, Style 2. Customized Beauty Secrets and Makeover Ideas, Style 3. Halloween Costume Options to Consider Wearing 4. The Bridal Gown You Might Wear, Style 5. What Dress Should You Wear to Prom, Style 6. What Style of Lingerie Do You Wear 7. You Might Want to Wear This Sexy Halloween Costume, Style 8. Your Ideal Tattoo, Style 9. Your Sultry Summer Style 10. Your Wedding Colors, Style 11. Your Wedding Flowers, Style(5) Lucky-Jupiter
1. Luck, alwaysastrology 2. Lucky Quality, lifetips 3. Lucky, Find Out Where You Are Luckiest in Life 4. How to Best Attract Good Fortune(6) Exercise
1. How You Might Want to Get Fit in Spring, Exercise 2. Your Yoga Pose6. Nice To Know (3)
1. Details of Your Personality, How You Were As A Child 2. Overall Personality, As A Child 3. Personality Overview, As A Child 1. Budget Tips, How to Save Money 2. How You Can Manage Your Money Better 3. Your Money Habits, How You Spend It 4. Your Ways of Mixing Money and Relationship 5. How You Deal With The Recession, How You Cope 6. What You INVEST In 7. Your Signs Worst Financial Compatibility 1. How Can Someone tell Your Sun Sign 2. How You Are Stereotyped and its Source
(1) Childhood
1. Details of Your Personality, How You Were As A Child 2. Overall Personality, As A Child 3. Personality Overview, As A Child(2) Money
1. Budget Tips, How to Save Money 2. How You Can Manage Your Money Better 3. Your Money Habits, How You Spend It 4. Your Ways of Mixing Money and Relationship 5. How You Deal With The Recession, How You Cope 6. What You INVEST In 7. Your Signs Worst Financial Compatibility(3) Identification
1. How Can Someone tell Your Sun Sign 2. How You Are Stereotyped and its Source
